From here to there

Growing up is a unique process. Each Rhino must follow an individual path forward. Each of Us sees that path our own way. No map, just a journey.

What is interesting about this process is how clearly We see the beginning, and how We know so little of where that path will take Us. Where things will lead, and what will occur along the way. All of that is masked from Us.

In some ways, this is true of any given day; We step forward, but cannot assess what is ahead.

 

Just deserts

Since Rhinos don’t own stuff, the only rewards We can offer another critter, Rhino or not, are Consideration and Encouragement.

“They got their just deserts” usually means some appropriate punishment, though sometimes it means reward. So, We assume We need to Earn decent treatment? Our goal is to gratify somebody else? Not Rhino, No thank you, neither today or tomorrow. No. As in, No. Like Never, or even more seldom.

Rhinos prefer to dole out Kindness and Respect as the normal social transaction, day to day, Everyone to Every Other One. Everybody wins.

Awareness

Being Robust Critters, We Rhinos are aware that there is only so much Space to go around in the Wild. Some critters take up Much Space, and some Less Space. But here We all are, a crowd of sorts, busy, busy, busy.

Being aware of Natural Limitations, We Rhinos try not to spread ourselves out all over the place. We keep ourselves condensed, so other critters have room to function.

Seems so obvious, but you’d be surprised how many critters are inattentive to the issue.

Congrats

Each individual Rhino is best tuned to our Inner Rhino, in subtle, unique ways. Thus each of Us is aware of our Victories over Dubious Choices, those moments when We approach our potential for Excellence.

So who is better at acknowledging these Triumphs than We ourselves? Right. Nobody.

Rhinos are not double-jointed, which makes Pats on the Back tricky. But We each do what We can, when appropriate; it’s the spirit of the thing that counts.

Phys Ed

Sometimes Rhinos will sense that We are coming apart at the seams. Not so much physically as mentally. The Stresses associated with Santa, Dietary Indulgences, one Festive Hootenanny after another form a cumulative Pressure.

What can a Rhino do about it?

Hold on. Maybe take a nap. In a week or so, Normalcy will return from Vacation, and then We can complain about how dull things are.