R Mothers all tell their tots, carrying a Grudge is no good. It’s exhausting and grumpy-making. Nursing the Grudge accomplishes nothing; they just grow and become ever more demanding. AND, the Grudge makes food bitter. Talk about an unacceptable situation!

Worst, it makes the Grudge-Bearer feel put-upon, and that is just NotRhino. Let’s move onto the part where We Say what needs Saying and Do what needs Doing. And then perfect our Samba Footwork, which could use the attention, let’s face it.