Sometimes We Rhinos feel We should just get over our nervous flutterings, to toughen up. Old rhinos know better, and in our heart of hearts, We know better too. We cannot discard the parts of Us that make Us Us.
Our history, individually, informs our every moment in subtle ways. We experience Fear, but in relation to prior experience and teaching. Get over it? good luck.
Or perhaps We can accept our eccentricities, and learn to live with them. Perhaps.