Grudges are a curse for Us Rhinos. Sometimes We cannot seem to let go of an experience, holding it as evidence of one’s Abuse. I’m allowed to pity myself because…
With or without evidence, the trial’s verdict is already in. The Victim is not only holding our hand, but wearing our skin. Poor Me.
What is sad is that Time cannot be grasped retrospectively. The Blame We want to assign changes nothing. It only deceives Us that We do not have the ability to change ourselves. Or to forgive.
I agree. Victimhood causes resentment and bitterness. Not playing victim allows one to take responsibilities, learn from mistakes, and grow.